Jonathan and I officially â€œdonâ€™t doâ€ Valentines Day. We will not be taken in by cards with kittens on them, or by Snoopy-themed chocolates. No set price menus including duck, a chocolate dipped strawberry and a swirl of raspberry coulis for us. Oh no. We deliberately set out to eat Pizza Hut and drink beer.
But that still means he has to get me flowers, right?
Because he should want to do it anyway, despite us â€œnot doingâ€ Valentines, right?
So I buy him a card as a back up. Which is fine, because heâ€™s bought me a card. I know because I can see it in his laptop case. But now the big day has arrived, and he hasnâ€™t given me my card, and I havenâ€™t given him his card. And neither one of us wants to be the first to admit it; we fell for the shtick again.
On our first Valentines, back in University, we decided we â€œdidnâ€™t doâ€ Valentines because the Oxford restaurants all brought in expensive set price menus. We would move Valentines to the 15th, we decided, and go out for dinner then. Thus free from romantic obligation on the Friday night, we organized a college paint balling expedition. Which was a great success, apart from the continuous trickle of people sidling over and congratulating us on our ability to still be friends â€“ they all assumed weâ€™d broken up quietly some weeks before.
The only year our saying that we â€œdonâ€™t doâ€ Valentines really worked out for us, we were in different countries. I was in New York with a play that I had written, Jon was in Warsaw, working at the university. Iâ€™d hidden a card somewhere blindingly obvious where he would find it, and he sent me a bunch of roses with the note â€œitâ€™s not so much fun not doing Valentines if we canâ€™t not do it together.â€
But if you are doing Valentines, and you are doing it together, these menu ideas will ensure that youâ€™re doing it right!
Valentineâ€™s Day Menu Ideas
Before dinner 15 â€“ 20 mins prep time – youâ€™re buying dessert and making pasta sauce that takes the same time to make as pasta does to cook
- Tagliatelle Carbonara with a green salad
- Strawberries and chocolate truffles
- Serve with prosecco or champagne
Make ahead â€“ 1/2 hour prep time and 1 hour baking time. Before dinner – 15 mins (cooking pasta, heating up the sauce)
- Antipasti (bought â€“ Iâ€™d suggest mini mozzarella balls, fancy olives, Parma ham, melon, breadsticks, fresh foccacia â€“ whatever looks good)
- Ragu a la Lady and the Tramp with a green salad
- Tiramisu-inspired chocolate pots
- Serve with an Italian red wine
Make ahead â€“ 1/2 hour. Before dinner â€“ 5 mins (put the fish in the oven, take the cous cous out of the fridge and scatter over the pomegranates)
The fish parcels can be prepared in advance then baked in the oven on the day. The cous cous can be served hot, warm or room temperature, so again, itâ€™s a prep ahead dish.
- Steamed red snapper with fennel and chick peas (cooked en papilotte) with pomegranate cous cous
- Individual chocolate pots with strawberries to dip in
- Serve with champagne
Valentines for a crowd
Make ahead â€“ 1 hour â€“ plus baking time for the slow cook tagine and brownies. Before dinner â€“ 15 mins to make the cous cous and scatter over pomegranates and to dress the salad
- Moroccan chicken tagine and pomegranate cous cous with a green salad with oranges
- Chocolate brownies
- Bowls of strawberries and pink and red individually wrapped chocolates
- Serve with pink cocktails
Romance for people who donâ€™t cook at all
Living room picnic on the floor
- French baguettes with brie, slices of fresh green apples, bowls of olives, tomatoes, cornichons, grapes
- Chocolate truffles
- Red wine
Dinner by candle light
- Bowls of humus, taramasalata, flat breads, olives, tabbouleh, stuffed vine leaves
- Dark chocolate broken into shards, almonds, figs, greek yoghurt drizzled with honey
- Rose wine or pink champagne